This continues from Marvin's comment on zz9's last post -
As for growing up .. I think its overrated. I refuse to grow up if it means giving up on random thuss sessions and fooling around in general and behaving weirdly instead since I have a gf/bf. Why can't people be normal ... the world really doesn't care if you are going out with someone. Strongly urge people to get a life before they get a bf/gf ... its not a f******g race where you have to get a gf/bf just because everyone else is! Might even solve the soulmate issue.
I know I'm not in that 'race' (as described by Marvin); neither do I care about joining one. And, there's not one but so many reasons for doing so.
Life's usually complicated. You have so many stuff to do. You don't want to get all tangled up in a relationship. You are not ready. You might not have a good feeling about it. You might have had a couple of bad ones. You are already hard-pressed for time. And, so on and on and on.....
But, I think I have some unique excuses to add as well.
First up, I never actually liked any of them. They were all a tough case and I had no patience in dealing with them. Further, I easily get tired of two individuals trying to play what's-going-on-his/her-mind game. (Though, I realized during MBA that this was something to do with asymmetric information, bounded rationality and game theory) . Yes, there were one or two who didn't fit the 'usual' bill, but let's not discuss them for the time being.
Second up, "Why?" I mean what's the need? Give me the answer and I'll start looking for a girl straightaway.
Now, why did this topic came to my mind?
Well, I had posted some 'unusual' pics of me playing guitar on the stage and I got some rather 'unusual' comments. Sample this -
"Lot's of girls must be after you"
"I'm sure you did this to get some chicks"
"So, you must be humping around these days"
Hello!!!
Isn't there something called 'love for music' left in this world?
Or, are all your actions governed by your pervert-ness and should have a sexual connotation.
I certainly fail to see the rationale.
And, then the world will recall me as an a**
P.S. Simply dig Marvin's line - Strongly urge people to get a life before they get a bf/gf ...
